Adventures In Unschooling · Parenting · Primary

How To Raise A Wild Child: a review

Hello all of my journey takers and lifelong explorers! I recently read How To Raise A Wild Child: The Art and Science of Falling In Love with Nature and I want to talk about it!

This piece of literary magnificence is written by Scott Donald Sampson, and let me tell you: this man doesn’t just get a clap-and-a-half, he is the clap-and-a-half! Not only is he a prolific writer, he is a paleontologist by trade, and is currently President and CEO of Science World in British Columbia, Canada. He was previously Vice President of Research & Collections and Chief Curator at the Denver Museum of Nature & Science and is the presenter of the children’s television hit Dinosaur Train!

Sweet Red Hot Resumes, Batman!

So what is so significant about How To Raise A Wild Child? What makes it stand out so much as opposed to his other numerous achievements? After all, this is a post about his book, not the author himself.

How To Raise A Wild Child was a project that was many years in the making, an expose on our generation’s (and the generation we are now raising) ‘Nature Deficit Disorder’, a term coined by another author, Richard Louv, who also writes widely on our children’s need for nature in his book The Last Child In The Woods. A book that, like this one, I cannot recommend enough!

“Nature is a contact sport.”

I loved this book. I loved it while in the car. I loved it while eating lunch, walking under the great oak in my backyard. I even loved it once or twice in the forest, in front of my kid!

Okay, innuendo aside, this book is marvelous. It is beautifully descriptive, stunning in it’s imagery. The way Dr. Sampson speaks of his long adventures beneath the sun and the rain are inspiring, to say the least. His notes on the developmental delays and overall damage that a lack of outdoor exposure cause are just as worrisome.

His words will make you want to jump ship on the housework or work load that you’ve been drudging along beneath, kick off your shoes and go running barefoot through the woods, letting the grass tickle your toes.

As breathtaking as the imagery can be, How To Raise A Wild Child can be a difficult one to get through in one sitting so I recommend buying the book at the link below. Maybe listen to it on audiobook so you can get it in while folding laundry, on your commute, or during a good workout. That is my typical modus operandi nowadays but whatever way you chose, get your pen and paper pads ready and keep them close! You are going to want to take notes on this one!

It’s a brilliant read that was written for parents and teachers, often referring to “your kids” and “your classroom” in equal amounts. Dr. Sampson will have your head spinning with ways that you can incorporate more of the outdoors into your everyday, whether that be with twenty kids or with two.

So go, pick up this book! Loosen up and prepare to get dirty! Prepare to once again delight in finding crystals in a stone, a pond full of tadpoles and building a stick fort, all over again! Your childhood will come sweeping back to you and your children’s childhood will thank you for it.

With Peace and Passion.

Ta!

Buy How To Raise A Wild Child on Amazon

Last Child In The Woods by Richard Louv

Also available on Kindle, Apple, and Audible. Don’t forget to check at your local library!

Additional Resources on How To Raise A Wild Child!

*How To Raise A Wild Child TEDxLangleyEd: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mn4ve9fLsuA

*Huffington Post: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/how-to-raise-a-wild-child_b_7153650

*Your Parenting Mojo podcast: https://yourparentingmojo.com/captivate-podcast/wildchild/

*Scientific American: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/mind-reviews-how-to-raise-a-wild-child/

Primary · WakingWitches & WanderingWunderkammer

The Tattoo Tarot by Megamunden

The Tattoo Tarot was a Christmas gift from Daddy Maxwell, one that I had spotted several weeks prior on a shelf in, of all places, Spencer’s Gifts. Immediately, I fell under its spell.

It is illustrated by Megamunden, a UK-based illustrator according to the booklet text. The booklet itself was written by Diana McMahon Collis, tarot reader for 30 years and co-founder of the Tarot Association of the British Isles. She also offers professional readings through the Circle of Professional Clairvoyants and through her website http://mindbliss.co.uk. They co-developed the Tattoo Tarot and it hit shelves in 2018.

Megamunden certainly threw his weight behind the illustrations in this deck! Every card is singularly visually captivating with its tattooed subjects and modern aesthetic. The colors and some of the visuals that the deck uses bring traditional Native American artwork heavily to my mind. Prime examples would be many of the Major Arcana, especially the Hermit, Temperance, Magician, and Justice cards.

The cards themselves are made of cardstock thicker than I’m used to seeing from a tarot or oracle deck. This makes it a little bit more difficult to shuffle for me personally because I have smaller hands. That’s not going to be an issue for everyone but it is something to keep in mind. However, even for me, it’s certainly not a deal breaker for this beautifully illustrated deck.

The way I got around it was I cut the deck in half, shuffled it then swapped it out with a half from the other half-deck stack, shuffled again, swapped it out for another half, and so on until I felt that it was shuffled well. So for you who are similarly dexterously handicapped this is one way you could go about it.

One thing I noticed rather quickly, not with the deck itself, but with the booklet that accompanied it, was that unlike other tarot sets, this one features the Minor Arcana first. And why not? There are far more of them than there are the majors. Something that this one does that many others don’t is that it goes into a general meaning for not only the suits but the numbers as well so you’re learning very general tarot information as well as deck specific information.

I feel good and solid about how my reading went with this deck. I didn’t get that immediately put off feeling that I’ve had with decks that just would not work with me (as has happened with two others in the past). Rather, my feelings with this deck were more along the lines of amused curiosity. Overall I would say as a deck for reading, this one is a sturdy and reliable companion. Of course that IS going to vary from person-to-person, as most of us well know by now. The Hermetic deck that bonded so beautifully with a good friend of mine, nearly makes my hands crawl off of my body.

Fortunately, tarot decks are just as variable as cities and countries. I, for one, am looking forward to seeing where the future takes me with this one!

With Peace and Passion!

Ta!

The Tattoo Tarot can be purchased at Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Tattoo-Tarot-Intuition-Diana-McMahon-Collins/dp/1786272059/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=tattoo+tarot&qid=1578609293&sr=8-1

At Barnes and Noble here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/tattoo-tarot-diana-mcmahon-collins/1130000713?ean=9781786272058

And is also available at Spencer’s Gifts!

Bliggety Blogs · Primary · Yoga & Meditation Methods

Zen As F*ck: A Journal For Practicing The Mindful Art of Not Giving A Sh*t

Today, I’m diving into Zen As F*ck, a mindfulness journal by Monica Sweeney! So let’s pull out some deep breathing exercising that you use with your screeching tots and finding our f*cking center.

The first thing you notice, and that I have to say about this journal, is that it is absolutely f*cking beautiful. Every page is ornamented with watercolors in a stunning array of color that makes even the staunchest of grouches pull out their phone to snap a quick new background pic.

The second thing? The gratuitous swears and “happy-ass vibes” that fill every page to bursting like a rain cloud exploding into a rainbows raining multicolored candies down from the heavens!

What is the maximum velocity of a Skittle anyways?

The point of all of this is, go buy this f*cking book. It’s beautiful, packed with moments for your happiest and most frustrating moments, and a hilarious way to get all of that bullsh*t off of your chest!

I wouldn’t recommend it for, say, your eleven year old but for you? Most defi-f*cking-lutely! Get your own copy here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1250147700/ref=x_gr_mw_bb_sin?ie=UTF8&tag=x_gr_mw_bb_sin-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1250147700&SubscriptionId=1MGPYB6YW3HWK55XCGG2

Now peace out Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, Non-binary Scouts, and Sailor Scouts! I’m going to get my sun salutation game on!

With Peace and Passion.

Ta!

*All images intellectual property of Monica Sweeney. Images taken from the official Amazon page.

Primary · WakingWitches & WanderingWunderkammer

A Little Pagan Songbook: He Yama Yo

Album cover for Curawaka’s Call of the Wild!

Hello, friends, journeyers, and truth seekers! Today’s feature is the talented Curawaka, back with their song He Yama Yo, a song of the Lakota tribe. This song has been a star favorite in our home for a long time, rivaling even the Frozen soundtrack as Little Maxwell’s favorite! Just like with Noku Mana, I wanted to share the songs that have had an influence on our house. Any of you parents out there who have had to sit through a million-and-one replays of Baby Shark can attest that the songs our children love do indeed impact us in unexpected ways! So without further ado, enjoy! A recorded playing of this song can be found at Curawaka’s official YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SofBQbI38PQ . Lakota lyrics are in thanks to genius.com! Translated lyrics in thanks to screenname danfreaka at YouTube!

He yama yo
Wana hene yo
He yama yo
Wana hene yo

He yama yo
Wana hene yo
He yama yo
Wana hene yo

Wahee
Yayana
Hey hey hey ho
Waahee
Hey hey hey hey hey ho
Wahee

And now, the English translation!

Gratitude for existing here and now,

Gratitude for every moment

I am born, I grow up,

I teach and I return to earth to be born.

Primary · WakingWitches & WanderingWunderkammer

Spilling The Tea With The Tarot: Empress

The Empress card from the Thoth Tarot.

So this post taught me the importance f backing up your writing rather than simply typing it directly into the WP document program. This is the second time I’ve had to slog through this one and let me tell you, for some reason, this deep dive was difficult for me. I don’t know why but either way, we’re back! Thank the gods too because the holidays can be one serious drain on the soul sometimes, you know? I did get a few new decks, however, and that’s brought us back to Spilling The Tea With The Tarot! Man, oh man, do I have some cool stuff coming down the line here on our Journey so make sure you subscribe and follow to be notified!

Now brew up a cup of today’s tea, a fruity and fragrant raspberry lemon blend by Celestial Seasonings, and join us as we delve into the Empress and all she has to offer.

Our lovely Empress is the third that the Fool encounters on his journey. She is the epitome of feminine strength and divinity. She is the archetypal mother we all want to be. Hair shining in the sun, gown artfully arranged around her, and sitting on a throne in a field of blossoms and fruit, she is everything every mother on earth aspires to be. She represents abundance and the divine feminine that resides inside all of us, whether we be male, female, or nonbinary. The Empress leads us to embrace it!

What are you growing in the fertile soil of your life right now? Are you nurturing it abundantly? Are you giving all of your energies into whatever job or prospect you are undertaking but leaving none leftover for yourself or for family? Are you working you passions like a job so much that they become more a chore than anything, the joy stripped away? Well then you need to pluck those weeds out of your life, those bad habits and stresses that steal your joy! Take a golden leaf from the Empress’s book and rain self-care and possibility all over that shit!

Don’t let your inner Man get you down!

With Peace and Passion.

Ta! ❤

Parenting · Primary

Longer Than Forever, My Love For You: a poem.

When you were a baby, I would sing to you every night.

I kissed your fingers one by one.

Your eyes and cute button nose.

Sometimes I was frustrated and cried as you cried, 

Deep into the night. 

Other times I could barely stand it,

The rush of amazement when I watched you.

The love that overwhelmed me,

So strongly that I could weep beneath the surge.

Now that you are older, I still sing to you.

Oftentimes, you sing too.

But always, always, is my love for you a melody,

That I will carry with you beneath my skin,

Inside of my veins and with every beat of my heart.

Always am I with you, 

Just as you have always been with me.

From the moment I was born.

To the moment you were born,

And every second of every day afterwards.

Longer than it would take

For the last star to die out. 

My breath be yours.

My heart beat for yours.

My every hour lived for you,

My sweetling, My dove,

My angel, My love.


Eco-Loving Living! · Primary

EnvironmentaLiving: Love Beauty & Planet Hair Care Gift Set!

Hekkin yes!

Hello, friends! I had the opportunity to try out the holiday hair set by Love Beauty & Planet recently and I wanted to tell you about it!

In our house we made a commitment to changing all of our toiletries and, slowly, some of the rest of the products we use around the house to more environmentally friendly options. Whether that meant swapping to products with certified vegan or cruelty free formulas, products from more sustainable or ethical sources, or simply cutting out much of the waste in our home, we started the change.

One of the things that we started with was our toothpaste and shower essentials. It took me a little while to find a shampoo and conditioner that I really liked and while I had used a few Love Beauty & Planet products before, I had never really gone to them for hair products.

Let me tell you, friends, those days are over.

This holiday pack was featured on a big time sale at Target, my one true shopping ship. For shampoo, conditioner, and dry shampoo, you can’t beat a sensible price. This gift set itself normally goes for about $20. Now honestly I’m not sure if it’s something I would typically pay $20 for. Maybe. It’s a very real possibility. That, however, is something for you to decide for yourself. I will tell you my thoughts and opinions on this set in the meantime.

One of the first things I noticed right off was the package’s profit claim. LB&P says that 100% of the profits from their gift set go to The Recycling Partnership. That’s great! I checked into this and found that this was true- for the 2018 set as well! It’s wonderful that LB&P continues to be one of the supporting partners of this wonderful nonprofit here on the cusp of 2020. Read about their contributions here: https://recyclingpartnership.org/unilever-brand-love-beauty-and-planet-joins-the-recycling-partnership/

Now, many, many of my fellow chronic illness warriors will tell you that dry shampoo is worth its weight in cash, so I was pretty eager to try out a new brand and scent. This one came in a yummy grapefruit scent! I normally use Batiste dry shampoo and I felt like the LB&P made my hair feel more dry than my usual brand. The grapefruit smell was pleasant, though I’m not sure it has Batiste beat as far as the price tag is concerned. So that was a tentative strike out for the dry shampoo (comparative to my usual, at least).

The shampoo smelled absolutely divine. Like someone captured a godsend and bottled it! I loved it! MY only complaint would be that I felt like I had to use more of the shampoo than I was happy with for my average length hair. The conditioner I had nothing negative at all to say! It left my hair smelling heavenly and feeling soft.

So on the dry shampoo? It’s a ‘no’.

On the shampoo? A tentative thumbs up.

On the conditioner? Yes!

I can’t wait to try other eco-friendly brands and bring my thoughts and opinions here to you! In the meantime, please drop us a like and a follow here on WP, over on Instagram, Tumblr, and Facebook! That’s right! We’re getting our social media game on!

With Peace and Passion.

Ta! ❤

Bliggety Blogs · My Medical Journey · Primary

This Is Me: Real Talk, Triggers & Starving In A World Of Plenty.

I’ve struggled with how to start this post but I know that it’s something that has to be done. All of those little “I am” statements and thought stops my therapist taught me can’t stop this train from a-rolling, so here we go. For those with sensitive natures or struggles of your own: DISORDERED EATING TRIGGER WARNING.

I struggle.

I struggle with my self image and I struggle with how I view my body. I struggle with the shame of it, the failure. I have for more years than I care to tally up. I’m far more accustomed and comfortable either loathing my body or simply ignoring it out of sheer necessity. Like many of you ladies and gents out there, I have been down that long dark path that marks itself only by calorie counts and numbers on a scale.

I am.

Am I? When a trigger hits you, it makes you feel like half of a person. As if half of you is suddenly locked away in some other weightless world.

For six years, I struggled with two different eating disorders.

I survived. I got through it.

But illness like that leaves a residue behind. Like some slimy, oily, trailing thing on the inside of your head, in your ribcage. In your stomach.

I tell people that surviving an eating disorder is like being an alcoholic. Even though you go into recovery, slide into an unexpected and delirious remission, it’s always there. It’s always a danger and it marks the entirety of your life. How do you balance hating/craving/fearing the very thing you need to live?

You may be recovered, but you will always be an addict.

Addicted to the sensation, the swooping joy of another pound post and another meal evaded. To the sweetly intoxicating ability to dig out the very root of yourself beneath your skin. The tightness of skin over bone and the pounding of blood in your ears, heart hammering away weakly, just by going up the stairs. The danger of a relapse will always be there, lurking in the dark beneath your eyelids.

Even years later, it’s not…like a little thing. It isn’t something that is easily and simply dismissed. Easily put away. You try to stay as distracted and busy as possible so you don’t have the time or energy to think about it. You try to stay one thousand feet away from any trigger at all times and eventually, it almost starts to feel like you were never sick to begin with. Like you’re really the princess in glass slippers instead of the downtrodden girl in the cellar with the cinders. Always, that demon is there on your back.

Standing on that scale is just for the doctors, right?

Just one more. One more. Maybe two?

Maybe I’ll stop tomorrow.

If I do those crunches, what if I don’t want to stop?

I can always work off that cake, right?

My hands are shaking… That’s good. Eating? Eating is bad.

We’re all so use to hiding it. Hiding the embarrassment, the shame, the sick parts of ourselves. We tuck in the edges of ourselves and hope no one notices so we can (not) handle it on our own. We don’t have to do it alone, though. There are people who love you. There are people who love me too. Even if they don’t exactly know what it all means in your own head, they can still be a supportive presence when the world gets too dark to take anymore.

When those triggers start to feel too big, reach out. Find a friend, a sibling, a stranger even, that can distract you or maybe that could just sit and listen.

I like to engross myself in a good book or an activity that engages my brain so thoroughly that those triggers are shoved right the hell out of the way. Sometimes, I step outside and take a deep breath. I breathe in the scents, the sounds, the softness of the wind, deep into my lungs. Slowly, I sigh out all of the shit and shame, the self hatred and the pain. Breathe it out. Take in the natural world around you and feel it settle deep within your body. Being out in nature is soothing and centering.

Don’t close yourself off from those you care about when those little thoughts start to weigh too much. When my own head starts to get in my way, I reach out to my best friend or my sister. Oftentimes, even my therapist. Sometimes I tell her my struggles, sometimes I don’t. But always, the presence of another makes that heaviness in my chest feel not quite so cumbersome.

If you are struggling with ED, depression, or sadness in your life, please reach out. You don’t have to hide anymore. One person can carry a heavy stone but together, we can move mountains.

With Peace and Passion.

Ta! ❤

Primary

Pom Pom Rug

How cute! It turned out so plush and cozy looking! 😀 I love it!

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Well after working on this project let me just say I have new calluses on my hands from all the scissor use I endured. I might not be making any more Pom Poms for awhile, but this is absolutely one of the cutest projects.

I started with basic yarn Pom Poms that I made and left the tails long. I used two different colors from my scrap yarn bin and they ended up working very well together, though I was skeptical at first. I also picked up a Rug Canvas at Hobby Lobby. How I made the Pom Poms is in a previous blog post I made.

When I first laid out the canvas it was not as flimsy as I thought it would be, but I actually liked it more than I thought I would in the end. I will say I have seen this project made with a…

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Adventures In Unschooling · Parenting · Primary

Snapshots Of A Day In The Unschooling Life

Hello all! I wanted to give you all a sort of short peek into some of the things we might do during the typical unschooling week. Maybe this will give you ideas about what you might do with your own kids whether they be unschoolers or traditionally schooled. Either way, these are activities that not only encourage educational learning but mental, emotional, and social skills, fine and gross motor skills, and life skills.

We built an easel that her aunt gave her for Christmas. It helped develop her fine motor skills, confidence and determination, and engineering. As we worked, I showed her the letter labeled pieces on the instructions and she learned the names of the hardware bits we used (nuts, bolts, etc.)!
Art time getting to use the easel we built!
Playing board games! This is the Paw Patrol Mighty Pups board game she got for Yule. It encourages turn taking and other social skills, fine motor skills, counting, following directions, and decision making. It was fun! 🙂 See my upcoming review of the game here soon!
Rainy day play! It was warm out and had been pouring, leaving big puddles outside! We love rainy days because of this opportunity, at least as long as there’s no thunder or lightning. We go outside and I let her get as messy as she wants before we go in and have a nice hot bath. It encourages a lot of the sensory processing skills and experiences that so many of our kids are lacking nowadays. Little Maxwell has been treated in the past for sensory processing disorder so these outdoor messy play days are especially important for her. After we have them and she’s all clean, she’s calmer, happier, and far more easy to engage in other activities. She even sleeps better! Sensory experiences can make a huge difference for kids of all neurodiversities. And the best place to get those experiences is outdoors.
Night time play! Another day where it was warm. Soaking up the opportunity, we took our dinner outside for a picnic under the stars and to watch the fanfare that was our neighbor’s Christmas light projectors. Little Maxwell was enraptured! She wanted to know how it worked and explore the play of light on the house next door. It was also an excellent opportunity to point out some constellations and talk about stars and planets!
Exploring some resin bug gems with a magnifying glass so we could see all the different parts and pieces and how some of them are even shiny and different colors! Bugs collected ethically.
Some evergreen seeds we planted sprouting up! These will eventually become giant spruce trees that will help provide oxygen to the world as well as a home and shelter for many other creatures, plants, and fungi. We named this seedling ‘Ever’. 🙂 Planting seeds of all different kinds, especially ones that kids can help harvest and eat or use is an excellent way to encourage sensory experience, science knowledge, life skills, and helps grow and understanding and love of our natural world and all of the processes and creatures that make it up. For those of you who may be wondering, the orange peels inside of the planter help keep our cat away! The other plants behind is a cutting from a succulent that was once my grandmothers, then my mothers, and now mine. And eventually, when she’s old enough to care for it on her own in a few years, Little Maxwell will get a cutting for her very own! A multi-generational succulent! How special! 🙂

These are all just a few things that we get up to during the week. Rain or shine they are opportunities to be found outside and inside. There important life skills That children can learn that they’ll use for the rest of their life. Just a few examples from these snapshots are reading instruction diagrams, learning how to use tools and other hardware pieces, confidence and taking on projects, independence, astronomy, reading and writing, math skills. Maybe more important than all of those, however, is a love and passion for learning and a curiosity. The confidence and self-determination to do and learn on her own, without someone having to cram that learning down her throat.

Kids don’t need to be forced or coerced into learning. If you just give them the tools and step out of their way, You will be amazed what you see them do, create, and pick up all on their own. Admittedly, it is a little bit of a leap of faith. It can be scary sometimes wondering if you’re doing the right thing but then, one day, you look over and realize that they’re reading the words in their books without every being taught. Or they are building these massive complicated structures, picking up a musical instrument that they saw on TV, maybe even learning something like how electrical currents work in a circuit or how to build a computer program, without any teacher assigning a single piece of homework.

They can do it. They are capable and they only need you to give them the chance to show it. All we have to do is get out of their way.

With Peace and Passion.

Ta!